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January 5, 2021

7 goals to add to your recovery plan

Introduction
Recovery after a stroke isn't just about walking farther or speaking more clearly. It’s also about rebuilding confidence, managing frustration, finding meaning in small wins, and discovering who you are after everything has changed. Incorporating mental and emotional goals into your recovery plan can help build strength in ways that aren’t always visible—but are just as important. Here are seven goals to help you along the way:

Be Kind to Yourself

Some days you’ll feel unstoppable. Other days, it might be hard to get out of bed. That’s normal.

Self-compassion isn’t weakness—it’s fuel for recovery.

When things don’t go as planned, remind yourself: I’m doing the best I can today. That’s enough. You don’t have to earn rest. You don’t have to rush healing. You just have to keep showing up—and some days, showing up means simply giving yourself grace.

Practice Gratitude

Even during difficult seasons, there is always something to be thankful for.

Start small:

  • A warm cup of coffee
  • A good conversation
  • Feeling the sun on your skin

Write down three things you’re grateful for every week.
They don’t need to be big. What matters is noticing them. Over time, this practice helps shift your mindset from what's missing to what's meaningful.

Spend 5 Minutes a Day Doing Nothing

You don’t always need to be doing something.

Find a moment each day to just sit—outside or inside, in silence or with gentle background noise—and simply breathe. No phone, no to-do list, no expectations.

This small daily pause helps reset your nervous system, calms the mind, and invites peace in the middle of your recovery journey.

Get Connected

Recovery can feel isolating—but you don’t have to go through it alone.

Join a stroke support group in person or online. Reach out to others in your community. Attend a local event. Even sharing your story with one person who understands can be powerful.

When we connect with others, we realize we’re not the only ones navigating the ups and downs—and that shared strength can make all the difference.

Reward Yourself

Progress deserves to be celebrated.

Whether it’s a chocolate bar, a movie night, or a fist-pump in the mirror, celebrate the work you're doing.

You don’t need to wait until you’ve achieved a huge milestone.
Made it through a hard day? That’s worth celebrating.
Completed a new rehab exercise? Celebrate that too.

You’re putting in the work—and that’s worth honoring.

Learn from the Bad Days

Bad days happen. What matters is how you respond to them.

Instead of beating yourself up, try asking:

  • What made today feel harder?
  • What could I do differently next time?
  • Who or what helped me get through it?

This kind of gentle reflection helps turn frustration into insight—without judgment.

Be Proud of Your Progress

Take a moment to look back at how far you’ve come.

Maybe you’ve regained movement. Maybe you’ve learned how to ask for help. Maybe you’ve just kept going, day after day. That is strength. That is progress.

Write it down. Say it out loud. Share it with someone you love.

You’re not the same person you were before your stroke—and that’s not a bad thing. You’re growing in courage, resilience, and wisdom every single day.

Final Thoughts

Recovery isn’t a flat road—it has sharp turns, uphill climbs, and unexpected detours. But each step, no matter how small, is a step forward.

Your physical strength will change over time, but your mental strength is measured by everything you've survived—and everything you keep fighting for.

You are doing more than enough. And we’re cheering you on every step of the way.

Rehabilitation
January 5, 2021
Written by
The Stroke Foundation
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